Institute of Psychoanalysis
Psychology faculty
"Love is happiness or not?"
Completed by: Ionova N.V.,
I course, group 117
Moscow 2010
Love, like everything natural, is a very simple thing. And I can easily define love. Love is what makes you happy. This is the feeling that brings happiness.
How often do we mistake anything for love. How many books have been written about "unhappy love", how much suffering accompanies such "love"! But love does not bring any suffering. Only happiness and joy. Illness cannot be love. Falling in love is happiness! And mutual love is, in my opinion, the dream of every normal person. After all, there are no restrictions for True Love: place or position, height or age, social status or nationality. The main thing is that a person should be a Man, and love should be Love.
Beloved, and therefore happy, can be anyone. This is an axiom.
People sincerely believe that they will wait until the moment when they are loved by the one and only, and then everyone will be happy. And since happiness is what everyone ultimately needs, then, chasing love, we are looking for happiness. And love, and happiness, and all other good experiences, these are all just our feelings, experiencing which we feel some kind of euphoria, we are pleased, we are thrown up, we are flattened and sausages.
Happiness! Love!! A life!!!
A person who refuses love is like a gray, dusty and nasty beech who sits in a room with the curtains down and does not believe that the sun can be outside the window. And all the romantics running from the street, he drives with a hefty broom - "so that the garbage is not brought in." Buka drives the romantics away, and the romantics run out and after five minutes forget about the beech, because:
Love! Spring! A life!
Romantics are inspired by their experiences in such a way that sometimes it’s not easy to become near them. How so? They are in love, am I? And where do they find someone to fall in love with? Some freaks around? But, looking at this romantic after a while, when he gets burned about his love, when he walks and cherishes his pain, at that moment you might think that really, why is she needed, this love !? Come on, with these mental anguish and throwing! It's better to be quiet, but still.
Are there such thoughts? I think there are, everyone has them...
Love is back side not self love.
Love has its pros and cons. I have no doubt that everyone can jot down a list of different thoughts about what good and bad love can bring into your life. Love is both the fear of loss and the delight of meeting, it is the pain of misunderstanding and enjoyment of each other, it is the rage of jealousy and the frenzy of tenderness. Love is always a holiday, but often with unexpected, and not always pleasant surprises. The advantage of love is that you seem to come to life. Life begins to play in you, you become prettier, you begin to take care of yourself so that your loved one likes it more ... Stop! But the same fact suggests that before that you were lifeless, you didn’t take care of yourself and people didn’t try to please you. How so? What were you like before you fell in love? The fact that when you fall in love you become more beautiful, get healthier, and turn pink, suggests that you were not so wonderful before falling in love. Then what happens? In order to start taking care of yourself more than usual, you need to fall in love. Fall in love with someone. It turns out that you do not love yourself, since you need to fall in love with someone to take care of yourself? And if you loved yourself, would you need to fall in love with someone to start taking care of yourself? I think not. When a person loves himself, he does not need to fall in love with someone to start taking care of himself.
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Let's try to figure it out. How to know that you love someone? This probably means that you think about this person, take care of him, etc. But how do you know that when you think about a person, you love him? You probably just feel it. It turns out that love is a feeling. If you do not feel love, then your concern will not be a manifestation of love, but something else. Maybe you care because it is necessary, or demanded, or so it should be, but what does love have to do with it? You can care without love.
Love is not action. Your tenderness for your beloved, words of love, care for him and much more, this is not love. These are just manifestations. You feel love, and you need to express it in actions towards your loved one.
I'm curious, how do you express love for yourself?
You will feel real love when you are calm, relaxed. You will feel a real feeling only on the condition that you do not fill it with fuss of action, but allow it to manifest itself as the bliss of relaxation. When you are at peace, you are relaxed and you are filled with love, that is real love. THIS IS HAPPINESS! You just feel it. And you feel not because you fell in love, but because you like to feel loved. Love because you like to love, not because you have fallen in love.
A person can feel happy in love, or he can decide that he is a loser in love, because all his novels ended in failure. And he, believing in his causal relationship, will find facts that will confirm his conclusion about himself. He will start such novels with such people, which will surely end in failure. This person will prove to himself that he is a loser. To prove with your life that there is no happiness in love.
But how easy it is to solve this problem, if you shift the attention from others to yourself. If in order to feel love, we need an object of love, and there are not enough worthy people around, we must take it and start loving ourselves. And that's it. All problems are solved. It would seem that it could be easier - took and fell in love with yourself. You take care of yourself, stroke, cherish, take care, and all this is based on the feeling of love. And then, when you yourself are already full, when this state becomes familiar to you - the state of love, you can gift, free of charge, as the Owl said, give this love to others. If you want, love the whole world, the main thing is that you love yourself.
Many will now object to me, they will say that this is nonsense, this is selfishness, so you don’t need anyone if you only love yourself. Don't just love yourself! Love yourself and those around you! Love everyone, but first of all yourself. Because: who will love you if you don't love yourself? How can you love you if you don't love yourself?
Let's try to find the reasons that prevent you from loving yourself and loved ones. Most likely, this is selfishness, fear of opening up to a loved one, and fear of love disappointments.
Selfishness prevents you from understanding your loved one, so he is always wrong, but how can you love the wrong one? Fear of opening up makes you hide your feelings deep in your soul, like in a well, where the surface of the water sways only in ripples, only echoes of those storms of passions that are hidden in the depths. The fear of love disappointments stops you at the moment when your soul is ready to open up to the feeling.
According to my observations, those people who do not love themselves love little, rarely and petty. So, in order to start loving others, you must first love yourself. We already know this. But how do you love yourself? What needs to be done for this? No need to actively run after love, so you will not catch it. Allow yourself to feel love and it will come immediately. Love is not hiding from you somewhere far away. Love doesn't mind coming to you at any moment. Love is just waiting for you to invite it in and let it in. Love is always with you, it's up to you to feel it.
People have been trying to explain for hundreds of years whether love is happiness or not. And you don't need to explain anything. Just love is enough. This is happiness. Just your feeling, which you will call love, is enough. And you can call this word any feeling. No one can tell you what feelings you should feel when you love!
And most importantly! If you love yourself, you no longer need to receive love from others, you do not depend on them. Isn't that happiness! Give love, good, no, good too. You become independent from the love of other people. You cannot be manipulated.
What do you feel if you don't love? Most likely fatigue, sometimes irritation, sometimes peace... Feelings are different, but something is missing. And you know what - love. And you begin to look for it, or rather, look not for love, but for reasons to feel love. Stop it. Stop fooling yourself. You always have a reason for love - it's you. Just as you always have an object of love - you, so you also have a reason - the same you. And then you are self-sufficient. You don't need to run wild and beg people - well, give me the opportunity to fall in love. You do not need to look for someone to fall in love with. You have everything at your fingertips. You love yourself because you love yourself. Are you happy! You always have a reason to love - you. You always have someone to love - yourself
And then everything in life begins to align. You have no shortage of feelings, and you have no one to blame for the fact that he does not allow you to love. You have no shortage of objects of love, and you no longer have to complain about life. You have everything. You are rich! And when a person is rich, he can give. And people love to be given. And they themselves begin to look for you in order to get a little, or a lot of love from you. And now you will have another concern - how to ward off freeloaders from yourself, what, or what, you were before. You do not have to choose your husband or wife from one more or less suitable candidate. You will always have an abundance of admirers and admirers, because people love rich people.
You will be loved because you are rich - spiritually. And then, in the end, there will be a person who will love you just like that, because he likes to love, because love is happiness. And this happiness is always in his soul. He likes to feel love just like you do. Here you have found your soul mate! Congratulations!
It is no coincidence that flowers are a symbol of love, in all ages, in all countries, in all societies. Love is like flowers - if it blooms in you - you have to share it, give it away. And the more you give it away, the more it grows in you. If you keep giving, the day will come when you will become an unchanging, endless source of love.
And now we can sum up. So is love still happiness or not?
There are many points of view. Some believe that love is happiness, a divine gift from above. Others - that this is a punishment for sins. Someone thinks: love is just hormones, instinct, the desire to continue the race. There is even such an extreme opinion: “love is a physiological or psychological disease aimed at the triumph of nature over personality.” In the past few years, love has become serious research topic in social psychology. Personally, I consider love to be the most important thing in human relationships. And probably, this is not only my opinion - after all, how many poems, ballads, legends have been written about love in the world.
Love can be happy and unhappy, joyful and bitter, flying by in an instant and lasting forever.. Most of all I like to read about eternal and true love. Maybe you just want to believe that there is at least something bright left in the world. When people are asked why they are friends or dating someone that they are attracted to in a partner, girlfriend or friend, most readily answer: “I like him because he is gentle, witty, well-read.” Here we lose sight of ourselves, because when we say that someone is attractive, we mean that he is attractive to ourselves. Therefore, from a psychological point of view, the answer would be more accurate: "I like him because I like what I feel when I'm with him." We are attracted to such people, and we enjoy this closeness.
Quite often, people around do not accept and even condemn those who believe in love. “Fools,” they say, “why love, suffer, worry, if you can live calmly and carefree.”
They believe that the one who sincerely loves sacrifices himself. Perhaps these people are right. But they will never experience happy moments of love, as they are cold and insensitive. Happy is he who has learned to love.
Autumn. September. Love. I think these are three great words! What could be better walks with a loved one in the autumn park. Walk hand in hand and just keep quiet. Just hear the quiet whisper of falling leaves, feel the gentle touch of the autumn sun and feel the warmth of the hand of a person walking next to you...
This is HAPPINESS!!!
All people on earth, regardless of gender, skin color, age and religion, are united by one desire - to be happy. Just be happy without thinking about what tomorrow holds for us, without worrying about how much money is left in the account, whether your favorite football team will win or whether there will be enough funds for new Gucci shoes.
The concept of happiness
However, each of us understands happiness in our own way. For some, happiness is the health and well-being of relatives and friends; for someone - a dizzying career, expensive car bills and vacations in Hawaii.
Someone sees their happiness in fame, recognition and creativity, and someone will be immensely happy when they find a tiny stale piece of bread that will seem like the most delicious delicacy in the world, and find a place to sleep at least for one night, so that in the morning continue again Happiness is different even in the understanding of men and women. What does a man need to be happy? Establish yourself in your own eyes and the eyes of others, earn decent money, take a certain position in society, meet a faithful and caring life partner and, paradoxically, eat delicious food. While a strong man's shoulder, a strong family, confidence in the future, healthy children - exactly what a woman needs for happiness, more precisely, most women, not to mention those representatives of the fair sex who put self-realization and career in the first place.
We live and work, striving to fill with moments, constantly asking the question of what happiness is for and how to deserve it. Why is a person happy? Why is the meaning of life for any of us reduced to the search for this good? Are the concepts of "love" and "happiness" the same? A series of eternal questions with no answers. Because happiness is difficult to achieve, changeable and deceptive. And there is no clear set of rules on how to acquire it and keep it.
Money for happiness or happiness in money?
One of the common beliefs that money makes us happier is unfortunately not true. And not even their number, as the French millionaire Paul Getty said. 60% of millionaires, show business stars and successful businessmen abuse alcohol and drugs in order to get out of depression, get sick more often and die prematurely from diseases caused by stress and injections that maintain youth and beauty. They experience the same feelings as people with limited financial resources, losing loved ones, worrying about children, fearing the future, suffering from loneliness, betrayal and betrayal. And no money can give them an all-consuming sense of satisfaction and joy.
And sometimes how little is needed for happiness: a hearty meal and a restful sleep; brilliant exam results; long-awaited "I love you". Let it be a short, but intoxicating moment of euphoria and delight, not depending on the number of banknotes in your wallet.
Work as a way to become happy
According to the greatest thinkers and writers of thematic books, the meaning of happiness lies in purposeful work and hard work. The lack of joyful moments can be replaced by a favorite thing, blocking the need for happiness with thoughts about the expected success and achievement of the goal. And the achievement of the goal is one of the components of a happy and self-sufficient life. Moreover, the very process of moving towards it, each passed stage gives meaning to existence, fills life with colors, hopes, the sweet taste of the expected victory, giving wonderful, unique moments. However, in many cases, final result brings only a feeling of bitterness and disappointment instead of the expected joy. Why is this happening?
“Everyone wants to live on top of a mountain, but all happiness, all development happens while you are climbing there,” said P. Coelho. The path has been successfully passed, the goal has been achieved, and there is no longer that passion, that aspiration, that adrenaline that fills life with a bright palette of feelings. What to do in this case and how much more do you need to go through such roads for happiness? Psychologists recommend regularly setting yourself various goals and achieving them. And then you will be able to keep the changeable and capricious Fortune near you for a long time.
Love and happiness. Are these concepts identical?
Returning to the question of what happiness is for, I would like to say that caused by an all-consuming feeling called “love”, it has a beneficial effect on human health and life. Yes, she is able to do this because the need for this wonderful feeling has been instilled in us since childhood, we absorbed it with mother's milk, received it from relatives and friends.
Love and only love is what a woman needs for happiness, for the sparkle of her eyes, for preserving youth and beauty. Love is the very force that moves the world, softens hearts and inspires deeds. Love, even unrequited, contains happiness. Happiness to feel, tremble, live as another person, rejoice, worry about him and even suffer. Only love can give a person a dizzying cocktail of feelings, a volcano of emotions and a hurricane of sensations. This is the highest feeling that everyone deserves and which gives the true meaning to our existence.
Laws of a happy life
Each person should have his own personal set of laws of a “happy life”, guided by which he will make it better and more interesting. These golden rules are a kind of line of conduct aimed at achieving goals, fulfilling desires and gaining spiritual harmony. They are wonderful because they serve as an excellent motivation for success, form a way of thinking, a system of values, and in no case will allow you to give up, being a kind of answer to the eternal question of what happiness is for.
Victory over yourself
Subdue your inner self and inspire it to fulfill your dreams. Conquering oneself is one of the greatest deeds worthy of admiration. To conquer oneself means to conquer laziness, to expel doubts, inner fears, insecurity and to fill the mind with pleasant thoughts and the desire to achieve the goal. And as mentioned above, there is a condition that can make us a little happier.
Thoughts are material
We are the product of what we think of ourselves. No need to consider yourself worthless, unnecessary, unlucky, just because there are people in your environment who are more successful, smart and bright than you. You will never become them, but you can become those who are admired and envied. And in order to achieve such a result, you just need to believe in yourself, try to see only the good in everything, do good, be focused on success and not give up. Bad thoughts, pessimism, whining and self-loathing are evil that sooner or later will destroy your life.
Generosity is a trait of strong people
Know how to forgive and let go. By forgiving the person who harmed you, you will free your soul from unnecessary memories and insults. And by releasing the source of pain, thereby destroy the pain itself, earning the right to a carefree and not overshadowed by unpleasant memories existence.
Happiness is within you!
Yours should not depend on material goods and values accepted by the surrounding society. Do not consider yourself inferior to others if you do not have what they have. Happiness is different for everyone, it does not come along with the acquired car, mansion, expensive things, but lives inside you, quietly and imperceptibly, until you realize it.
Do not compare yourself with other people, do not let them shape your life scenario, do not adjust to other people's opinions and social stereotypes. A high social status is not a guarantee of a happy and carefree life, but rather its miserable copy. Harmony of the soul - and there is a simple happiness that should settle in your heart and sow the fruits of love and luck in it.
Let's dream... What if it comes true?
Dream and believe in your dreams. Every dream has a wonderful property to come true. Do not pay attention to those who try to convince you of the impossibility of its implementation. The impossible becomes possible, you just have to really want it. A person always considers himself weaker than he is, forgetting about the powerful internal reserves that are usually activated in difficult life situations.
Support Group
Learn to feel the people around you.
“Aid from the audience” is a powerful stimulant, huge support and untold wealth. The wider your social circle, the more friends and associates you have, the happier and calmer your life. Learn to win over people, be an interesting conversationalist, an attentive listener, a sincere and sympathetic friend. Know how to control your emotions, understand and justify the words and actions of another person, support his crazy ideas and undertakings. And then you will have a reliable rear and a huge support group that will believe in you, follow you and take an example. Confidence in friends and self-worth - what does a man need to be happy?
By following these golden laws of life, you will not only achieve success, but also gain peace of mind, inner harmony and respect for others, which are integral components of changeable happiness.
So what is happiness for? Statistically, happy people live longer and get sick less. Their life is bright, sunny, interesting, they attract people like a magnet, infecting them with their enthusiasm, delighting them with raging vitality, success contributes to them, they easily make all their dreams come true. Do you want to become like them? Stop complaining about life and blaming yourself for all the failures, smile broadly and look at the world from a different angle. He's beautiful, isn't he?
Lesson summary
Why didn't happiness happen?
Tatiana Larina and Eugene Onegin?
(The theme of love in r.
"Eugene Onegin".)
The lesson that completes the in-depth
reading a novel.
Lesson teaching writing-reasoning.
Lesson teaching how to plan
ordinary and quotation plan.
Teacher:
Lesson Objectives:
1. Finish an in-depth reading of the novel "Eugene Onegin".
2. Analyze chapter 8 and answer main question lesson.
3. Determine what is the originality of the genre of writing - reasoning, name its components.
The main task of the lesson:
learning how to plan an essay.
Technology:
group, research, creative.
Equipment:
Illustrations for the novel and drawings by students;
Recordings of the aria of Onegin and Tatyana;
Texts of the novel;
Textbook on literature 10 cells. ;
Decorated board.
Plan. (Lesson and as an essay plan).
Normal | Quote |
I. Love and happiness are very close concepts. II. Onegin and Tatyana are two banks of one life - the river. 1. Captured by books and light. 2. Meeting of heroes. (Village). 3. Letter from Tatyana. 4. Date in the garden. 5. Separation. (Duel, departure of Onegin). 6. New meeting. (Petersburg.) 7. Last date. Separation forever. III. 1. The originality and role of composition in the disclosure of the main storyline novel - the failed happiness of the author's favorite characters. "God forbid that in this book you (the reader) at least a particle could naigi." | Introduction. I. "Love is the heart of everything." Main part. II. "Shores, shores. This shore and that one - between them is the river of our life. 1. She is"fell in love with the novels of both Richardson and Rousseau." He"like Childe Harold sullen." 2. She is: "You almost entered, I instantly found out ..." He: "Tell me, which Tatyana?" 3. She is: "I know you are sent to me by God." He 4. She is"Listened a little breathing." He: “Your perfections are in vain. I don't deserve them at all." 5. He:“One more thing separated us, Lensky fell an unfortunate victim.” (Or "From all that heart nice, then I tore off. She is 6. He: “How Tatyana has changed! - Goddess of the royal Neva!” She is"... does not notice him." 7. He: "How wrong I was, how punished!" She is Conclusion III. 1. "Forever alive, forever new." (Opinions and judgments about the novel by critics, readers of different eras). |
Preparatory work.
1. Draw illustrations for the 8th chapter of the novel (your own, not copy them).
3. Answer in writing (in workbooks) the following questions:
How does the novel end? (8 chapter).
Who and what is the whole novel about?
Your understanding(s):
What is love?
what is happiness? Are they related?
Under what circumstances, where, how did Tatyana and Eugene Onegin meet?
Why did Onegin not reciprocate, although he immediately noted her mind, modesty, spiritual beauty?
Letter from Tatyana Onegin. How does it reveal Tatyana's character, nature?
Onegin's confession to Tatyana (a date in the garden) in response to her letter. How does it characterize Onegin, what are his character traits?
Why did the duel between Onegin and Lensky take place, because they were friends?
Have our heroes (Onegin and Tatyana) changed in 2 years of separation?
Why did Onegin now fall in love with Tatyana, a lady of the world?
Why now Tatyana refused Onegin?
Who do you feel more sorry for: Tatyana or Onegin? And Pushkin?
Why does Pushkin leave his hero (Onegin) at such a fateful moment for him, and the novel remains unfinished?
Is it possible to continue it? If yes, how would you complete it? Try to write another chapter (prose, of course).
Why, in your opinion, did the happiness of Onegin and Tatyana not take place?
Or maybe they found a different happiness? In what? What is the ideal of the poet Pushkin?
Individual assignments.
1. Prepare brief references(repetition) about romanticism, sentimentalism, the originality of their development in Russia (2 students). The material is in the textbook.
2. Prepare an expressive reading by heart of Tatyana's letter (with my abbreviations) (1 student).
3. Dramatization of the last meeting of Onegin and Tatyana (Petersburg). (I compiled it myself on the basis of Onegin's letter, chapter 8. I prepared its execution.)
4. 2 individual tasks about Tatyana and Onegin: - a message about Onegin's journey and how he appeared in St. Petersburg; - a message about what events happened in Tatyana's life during Onegin's absence, how are they explained?
Making the board for the lesson.
Records on the board: topic, goals, tasks, plan. (The plan is the usual (left side) of the board, and the right side is empty).
During the classes.
I. Introduction.
"Love is the heart of everything." (Or love and happiness are very close concepts.)
1. Guys, what and who is this novel about? (About love, about unfulfilled hopes, about young people of the 10s-20s of the 19th century.)
2. What is love? What meaning do you put into this word? And what does Pushkin mean by the word love? (The guys name the words: love is passion, suffering, illness, illness, happiness or misfortune, family; this is life, favorite work, beloved friends ...)
I already have these words prepared in advance on the leaves and a heart is drawn. I attach these words (or all this on the poster) to it (like rays).
It turns out here is such a reference outline (the guys can draw it in notebooks)
Favorite work life
favorite friends passion
suffering
family Children
misfortune disease
happiness illness
3. What is happiness? (We do the same vocabulary work with this word.)
Sun (happiness): a sense of accomplishment, life, love, light, the warmth of a family hearth, children, service to the Fatherland.
We write the first output:
Love and happiness are very close concepts, they always coexist, one is revealed through the other. These words are synonyms. The novel "Eugene Onegin" is a novel about love, but failed, did not become happiness.
So we will try today in the lesson to find out the reasons why the happiness of Tatyana and Onegin did not take place, what are the reasons. This is the topic of the lesson.
We pass to the main part of our reasoning.
II. Main part.
1. Captured by books and light.
1. A brief literary dictionary summary of sentimentalism and romanticism and the peculiarities of their development in Russia. (2 students are prepared in advance.)
2. Conversation with students.
Do you guys find the presence of these trends in the literature regarding the novel "Eugene Onegin"? (Yes, especially since Pushkin himself called his work a "novel".)
What is this novel: a tribute to fashion, that is, romanticism fashionable at that time, or an attempt by the author to explain the characters of his characters, their relationships? (Both.)
What are our main characters Onegin and Tatyana? What can you say about them (according to the first chapters of the novel) about their lifestyle, hobbies, habits? (To save time, 2 pre-prepared students can briefly talk about them.)
We write the output: Onegin and Tatyana live the life of the heroes of books, like all the youth of 10-20 years: Tatyana - Richardson, Rousseau; Onegin - Byron ("Childe Harold"), Benjamin Constant ("Adolf").
Pushkin himself was fond of them and studied them! That is, Onegin and Tatyana are typical representatives of the youth of the early nineteenth century, they are no exception, they are the same tribute to fashion; this is captivity, this is deceit, these are mistakes, delusions, life under the influence of what has been read. (" She is fell in love with the deceptions of both Richardson and Rousseau”; is he like Childe Harold sullen.)
2. Meeting. (Village).
Briefly tell us how, under what circumstances, where did Onegin and Tatyana meet for the first time? (In the village, Lensky invited a friend to the Larins.)
What was this meeting for Tatyana? (Fatal!)
Why fatal? What is the result of this meeting? (Tatyana falls in love with Onegin, but unrequited!) She is: "You almost entered, I instantly recognized." He: “Tell me, which Tatyana?”
3. Letter (of Tatyana).
A student (dressed as Tatiana) reads by heart (abridged) Tatiana's letter.
Question for the class:
What can you say about Tatyana's feelings, what are they?
How does the letter reveal the nature, character of Tatyana? (Her feelings are sincere, pure, strong, she fell in love for life. This is a whole nature, but too trusting, believes in fate, etc.)
She is: "I know you were sent to me by God."
He:"... touched by the letter of the innocent Tanya."
4. Date. (In the garden.)
Why did Tatiana fall in love with Onegin at first sight?
(I read books, waited for my hero, saw him in Onegin - mysterious, unlike; she believed in the fate.)
Why did Onegin not use divine gift that fate sent him?
(I didn’t want to lose the freedom that I had just gained by leaving the “light” of Petersburg; he still was unable to love myself and couldn't appreciate love of another.) But he showed gratitude, warning where "inexperience leads."
She is: "... listened a little breathing."
He: "Your perfections are in vain,
I don't deserve them at all."
5. Separation. (Duel, departure of Onegin.)
What caused the separation of Onegin and Tatyana? (Duel, death of Lensky.)
Why took place duel between Onegin and Lensky? Duel between friends?
(“The spring of honor is our idol.
And this is what the world revolves on!”)
Fear of gossip, rumors. Yes, and they are friends "from doing nothing."
It turns out that Onegin is not capable of either love or friendship, because he is not free from the "light", its laws. Only then will it come to him.
He"One more thing tore us apart,
Lensky fell an unfortunate victim.
(Or "From all that sweet heart,
Then I broke my heart.)
She is(in Onegin's house): "Isn't he a parody?"
The student and student briefly talk about how and where Onegin and Tatyana lived for two years apart:
about Onegin - a journey and what returned to Petersburg, as received;
about Tatyana - a series of events in her life, her feelings, thoughts, new outer the shape of a heroine.
6. New meeting. (Petersburg.)
How does he find the St. Petersburg "light" of Onegin, why?
(Strange, he doesn't look like his former self, doesn't look like them.)
What does the “light” advise Onegin? (Be like everyone else.)
And what, in your opinion, is the “strangeness of Onegin”? What has changed in it? (I began to notice people, became capable of feeling, suffering, fell in love!)
How does he find Tatyana now? (He does not find a trace of the former humble girl. She is impregnable, cold: “Goddess of the royal Neva!”) He: "Goddess of the royal Neva!" She is: "... does not notice him."
Let's see it firsthand.
7. Staged. "Last date".
(Scene of the last meeting
Onegin and Tatyana.)
It is based on Onegin's letter, chapter 8 of the novel.
How is this date different from the first, in the garden, in the village? (Onegin has become himself, loves, suffers, but does not find the former Tanya. The situation has changed directly “on the contrary.” She is now teaching him a lesson in morality.)
What motivates Tatyana Onegin's sudden love for herself? Answer with lines from the text of the novel. (What is notable, what is in the light, that her shame would be noticed by everyone.)
Do you think she is right? (No! He loves sincerely, repents of his previous mistakes, that then "he did not give way to the habit", that "he did not want to lose his hateful freedom.")
What do they both understand? (that both love each other. That Tanya is the same, that Onegin is different, but that happiness is impossible.)
Why does Tatyana ask to leave her? (Married, faithful to duty, cherishes the honor of her husband, respects him, because he is a noble general, wounded in battles, respected by all.) He: "How wrong I was, how punished." She is: "But I am given to another, I will be faithful to him for a century."
8. What mistakes did they both make?
(Tatyana got married, yielding to her mother’s entreaties, and “all the lots were equal” to her; Onegin once did not believe himself (“a habit from above is given to us”), he could not once rise above “light”.)
Conclusion: Their happiness did not take place for many reasons (mistakes that both of them made): tribute to fashion; Tatyana's ignorance of the laws of secular life, her imprudence; the desire to be free from family ties by Onegin; duel; Marriage of Tatiana
What lesson of life, what science of love did Pushkin teach us? (Life is harsh, unlike its beauty in books, in dreams; it is filled with human suffering, separations, late realization of one's mistakes and the inability to correct them, since it is impossible to turn back time, to live anew (you cannot enter the same river twice). So always has been, always is and always will be...
What examples of a similar fate of the heroes of works of classical and modern literature do you know?
("Romeo and Juliet" - literary heroes; M. Volkonskaya - in life. She married, like Tatyana (in the river "Eugene Onegin") not for love, but she carried a high sense of duty through her whole life, went for her husband to Siberia...) About the same destinies, sufferings, mistakes of life is also sung in the song "Shores" performed by A. Malinin. Let's listen to her.
9. (Musical pause.)
III. The final part of the lesson.
"The Distance of the Free Romance".
1. The role of composition, its originality in revealing the ideological concept of the novel.
Questions for the class:
What can you say about the composition of the novel?
What is the role of chapter 8 in it?
What is the originality of the composition of the novel "Eugene Onegin"? (answer)
Then I.(The composition is traditional, simple, as the novel reveals the typical fate of the characters in the development of their love relationships.
First: She loves him
He won't notice her.
She writes him a letter, listens to his sermon.
Then: He loves her, she does not notice him; he writes her a letter, listens to her sermon
It often happens in life. This is a simple construction of the novel (mirror composition, reflection reversed.) But it emphasizes the complexity human relations, experiences of our heroes.
Critics, readers about the novel.
2. And now let's turn to the opinions of critics, literary critics (Pushkin's contemporaries and today). What did they find in the novel, what do they think of its characters?
(The statements of Belinsky, Herzen, Dostevsky, Merezhkovsky, Lotman, Kuchelbecker, Gukovsky are ending.) We read from the textbook and listen to individual information from the student.
Question for the class: - Are their opinions unambiguous?
Answer: No, they are different. Yes, many are the same…”
Question: "And why?"
Answer: …
Conclusion (teacher): because our life is filled with diversity, the movement of thoughts, destinies. The main thing in it is the ability to overcome difficulties, the ability to think, feel, love, warm others with your love, shine on others like a candle in a dark night, warm the warmth of your outstretched hand to another who needs it. The great Pushkin hoped for this, he prayed to God about this: “God grant that in this book, reader, you could find at least a grain.” I. Moiseev and A. Pugacheva sing about the same in the song “Two Candles in a Dark Night”. (We light candles from one to another, join hands and listen to the song.)
2nd musical break.
so our journey through the pages of Pushkin's favorite novel "Eugene Onegin" ended, the last page of the life of his favorite heroes closed. Take his wise advice into your life, carefully, like a candle, carry your love through life and remember that love (as the poet told us) is a priceless gift, a divine gift! Learn from Pushkin all your life.
Lesson grades. They are set according to the number of tokens, their colors, which students have earned in the lesson.
Homework.
Write an essay on one of the suggested topics. (The topics were given in advance in one of the lessons at the beginning of the commented reading of the novel.)
Here is a list of those topics.
1. Why did the happiness of Onegin and Tatyana not take place? (According to the novel "Eugene Onegin".)
2. The role of the episode ("Tatyana's Dream") in the disclosure of character and fate main character novel "Eugene Onegin".
3. “Where there are no passions,
Where there is no sadness
There is no life there.
V. Belinsky
(According to the novel "Eugene Onegin" or at the student's choice.)
4. "I love my dear Tatyana so much."
A. Pushkin
5. Features of the genre and composition of the novel "Eugene Onegin".
6. My opinion about Onegin. (According to the novel "Eugene Onegin".)
Subject: Russian literature
Subject: Preparation for writing. (22 - 23 lessons)
Composition based on the work of A.S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin".
Why didn't happiness happen?
Tatiana Larina and Eugene Onegin?
(The theme of love in the novel by A. S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin".) Type of lesson: A lesson that completes an in-depth reading of the novel.
Lesson teaching writing-reasoning.
A lesson that teaches how to draw up an ordinary plan and a citation plan.
Objectives: To be able to select the material correctly, analyze the work, write according to the topic of the essay, use citation correctly.
Tasks: 1. Complete an in-depth reading of the novel by A. S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin".
2. Analyze chapter 8 and answer the main question of the lesson.
3. Determine what is the originality of the genre essays - reasoning name its components.
The main task of the lesson:
learning how to plan an essay.
Technology:
group, research, creative.
Equipment:
Illustrations for the novel and drawings by students;
Recordings of the aria of Onegin and Tatyana;
Texts of the novel;
Textbook on literature 10 cells. V. G. Marantsman;
Decorated board.
Plan. (Lesson and as an essay plan).
Normal Quote
I. Love and happiness are very close concepts.
II. Onegin and Tatyana are two banks of one life - the river.
1. Captured by books and light.
2. Meeting of heroes. (Village).
3. Letter from Tatyana.
4. Date in the garden.
5. Separation. (Duel, departure of Onegin).
7. Last date. Separation forever.
III. 1. The originality and role of composition in revealing the main storyline of the novel - the failed happiness of the author's favorite characters.
"God forbid that in this book you (the reader) at least a particle could naigi."
A.S. PushkinIntroduction.
I. "Love is the heart of everything."
V. V. Mayakovsky
Main part.
II. "Shores, shores. This shore and that one - between them is the river of our life.
1. She "fell in love with the novels of both Richardson and Rousseau."
He is "like Childe Harold sullen."
2. She: “You almost entered, I instantly found out ...”
He: "Tell me, which Tatyana?"
3. She: "I know you are sent to me by God."
He is "... touched by the letter of the innocent Tanya."
4. She "listened with a little breath."
He: “Your perfections are in vain. I don't deserve them at all."
5. He: "Another thing separated us, Lensky fell an unfortunate victim." (Or “From everything that is dear to my heart, then I tore it off.” She (in Onegin’s house): “Isn’t he a parody?”
6. He: “How Tatiana has changed! - Goddess of the royal Neva!”
She "... does not notice him."
7. He: “How wrong I was, how punished!”
She: "But I am given to another, I will be faithful to him for a century."
Conclusion
III. 1. "Forever alive, forever new."
V. G. Belinsky
(Opinions and judgments about the novel by critics, readers of different eras).
Preparatory work.
1. Draw illustrations for the 8th chapter of the novel (your own, not copy them).
3. Answer in writing (in workbooks) the following questions:
How does the novel end? (8 chapter).
Who and what is the whole novel about?
Your understanding (and A. S. Pushkin):
What is love?
what is happiness? Are they related?
Under what circumstances, where, how did Tatyana and Eugene Onegin meet?
Why did Onegin not reciprocate, although he immediately noted her mind, modesty, spiritual beauty?
Letter from Tatyana Onegin. How does it reveal Tatyana's character, nature?
Onegin's confession to Tatyana (a date in the garden) in response to her letter. How does it characterize Onegin, what are his character traits?
Why did the duel between Onegin and Lensky take place, because they were friends?
Have our heroes (Onegin and Tatyana) changed in 2 years of separation?
Why did Onegin now fall in love with Tatyana, a lady of the world?
Why now Tatyana refused Onegin?
Who do you feel more sorry for: Tatyana or Onegin? And Pushkin?
Why does Pushkin leave his hero (Onegin) at such a fateful moment for him, and the novel remains unfinished?
Is it possible to continue it? If yes, how would you complete it? Try to write another chapter (prose, of course).
Why, in your opinion, did the happiness of Onegin and Tatyana not take place?
Or maybe they found a different happiness? In what? What is the ideal of the poet Pushkin?
Individual assignments.
1. Prepare brief references (repetition) about romanticism, sentimentalism, the originality of their development in Russia (2 students). The material is in the textbook.
2. Prepare an expressive reading by heart of Tatyana's letter (with my abbreviations) (1 student).
3. Dramatization of the last meeting of Onegin and Tatyana (Petersburg). (I compiled it myself on the basis of Onegin's letter, chapter 8. I prepared its execution.) 4. 2 individual tasks about Tatyana and Onegin: - a message about Onegin's journey and how he appeared in St. Petersburg; - a message about what events happened in Tatyana's life during Onegin's absence, how are they explained?
Making the board for the lesson.
Records on the board: topic, goals, tasks, plan. (The plan is the usual (left side) of the board, and the right side is empty).
During the classes.
I. Introduction.
"Love is the heart of everything." (Or love and happiness are very close concepts.)
1. Guys, what and who is this novel about? (About love, about unfulfilled hopes, about young people of the 10s-20s of the 19th century.)
2. What is love? What meaning do you put into this word? And what does Pushkin mean by the word love? (Guys name the words: love is passion, suffering, illness, illness, happiness or unhappiness, family; this is life, favorite work, beloved friends ...)
I already have these words prepared in advance on the leaves and a heart is drawn. I attach these words (or all this on the poster) to it (like rays).
It turns out here is such a reference outline (the guys can draw it in notebooks)
Favorite work life
favorite friends passion
suffering
family Children
misfortune disease
happiness illness
3. What is happiness? (We do the same vocabulary work with this word.)
Sun (happiness): a sense of accomplishment, life, love, light, the warmth of a family hearth, children, service to the Fatherland. We write down the first conclusion:
Love and happiness are very close concepts, they always coexist, one is revealed through the other. This is words are synonyms. The novel "Eugene Onegin" is a novel about love, but failed, did not become happiness.
So we will try today in the lesson to find out the reasons why the happiness of Tatyana and Onegin did not take place, what are the reasons. This is the topic of the lesson.
We pass to the main part of our reasoning.
II. Main part.
1. Captured by books and light.
1. A brief literary dictionary summary of sentimentalism and romanticism and the peculiarities of their development in Russia. (2 students are prepared in advance.)
2. Conversation with students.
Do you guys find the presence of these trends in the literature regarding the novel "Eugene Onegin"? (Yes, especially since Pushkin himself called his work a "novel".)
What is this novel: a tribute to fashion, that is, romanticism fashionable at that time, or an attempt by the author to explain the characters of his characters, their relationships? (Both.)
What are our main characters Onegin and Tatyana?
What can you say about them (according to the first chapters of the novel) about their lifestyle, hobbies, habits?
(To save time, 2 pre-prepared students can briefly talk about them.)
We write down the conclusion: Onegin and Tatyana live the life of the heroes of books, like all the youth of 10-20 years: Tatyana - Richardson, Rousseau; Onegin - Byron ("Childe Harold"), Benjamin Constant ("Adolf").
Pushkin himself was fond of them and studied them! That is, Onegin and Tatyana are typical representatives of the youth of the early nineteenth century, they are no exception, they are the same tribute to fashion; this is captivity, this is deceit, these are mistakes, delusions, life under the influence of what has been read. ("She fell in love with the deceptions of both Richardson and Rousseau"; he is "like Childe Harold morose.")
2. Meeting. (Village).
Briefly tell us how, under what circumstances, where did Onegin and Tatyana meet for the first time? (In the village, Lensky invited a friend to the Larins.)
What was this meeting for Tatyana? (Fatal!)
Why fatal? What is the result of this meeting? (Tatyana falls in love with Onegin, but unrequited!) She: "You almost entered, I instantly recognized." He: "Tell me, which Tatyana?"
3. Letter (of Tatyana).
A student (dressed as Tatiana) reads by heart (abridged) Tatiana's letter.
Question for the class:
What can you say about Tatyana's feelings, what are they?
How does the letter reveal the nature, character of Tatyana? (Her feelings are sincere, pure, strong, she fell in love for life. This nature is whole, but too trusting, believes in fate, etc.) She: “I know you were sent to me by God.”
He: "... touched by the letter of the innocent Tanya."
4. Date. (In the garden.)
Why did Tatiana fall in love with Onegin at first sight?
(I read books, waited for my hero, saw in Onegin precisely his- mysterious, dissimilar; I believed in destiny.)
Why didn't Onegin take advantage of the divine gift that fate sent him?
(He didn’t want to lose the freedom he had just gained after leaving the “light” of Petersburg; he was not yet able to love himself and could not appreciate the love of another.) But he showed gratitude, warning where “inexperience leads.”
She: "... listened a little breathing."
He: "Your perfections are in vain,
I don't deserve them at all."
5. Separation. (Duel, departure of Onegin.)
What caused the separation of Onegin and Tatyana? (Duel, death of Lensky.)
Why did the duel between Onegin and Lensky take place? Duel between friends?
(“The spring of honor is our idol. And this is what the world revolves on!”) Fear of gossip, rumors. Yes, and they are friends "from doing nothing."
It turns out that Onegin is not capable of either love or friendship, because he is not free from the "light", its laws. Only then will it come to him.
He: "Another thing tore us apart,
Lensky fell an unfortunate victim.
(Or "From everything that is dear to my heart, Then I tore my heart off.") She (in Onegin's house): "Isn't he a parody?"
The student and student briefly talk about how and where Onegin and Tatyana lived for two years apart:
about Onegin - the journey and how he returned to St. Petersburg, how he was met;
about Tatyana - a series of events in her life, her feelings, thoughts, the new appearance of the heroine.
6. New meeting. (Petersburg.)
How does he find the St. Petersburg "light" of Onegin, why?
(Strange, he doesn't look like his former self, doesn't look like them.)
What does the “light” advise Onegin? (Be like everyone else.)
And what, in your opinion, is the “strangeness of Onegin”? What has changed in it? (I began to notice people, became capable of feeling, suffering, fell in love!)
How does he find Tatyana now? (He does not find a trace of the former humble girl. She is impregnable, cold: “Goddess of the royal Neva!”) He: “Goddess of the royal Neva!” She: "... does not notice him."
Let's see it firsthand.
7. Staged. "Last date".
(The scene of the last meeting of Onegin and Tatyana.) It is based on Onegin's letter, chapter 8 of the novel.
How is this date different from the first, in the garden, in the village? (Onegin has become himself, loves, suffers, but does not find the former Tanya. The situation has changed directly "on the contrary." She now teaches him a lesson in morality.) - What motivates Tatyana Onegin's sudden love for herself? Answer with lines from the text of the novel. (What is notable, what is in the light, that her shame would be noticed by everyone.)
Do you think she is right? (No! He loves sincerely, repents of his previous mistakes, that then "he did not give way to the habit", that "he did not want to lose his hateful freedom.") - What do they both understand? (that both love each other. That Tanya is the same, that Onegin is different, but that happiness is impossible.) - Why does Tatyana ask to leave her? (She married, faithful to her duty, cherishes her husband's honor, respects him, because he is a noble, wounded in battle, respected by all general.) He: "How wrong I was, how punished." She: "But I am given to another, I will be faithful to him for a century."
8. What mistakes did they both make?
(Tatyana got married, yielding to her mother’s entreaties, and “all the lots were equal” to her; Onegin once did not believe himself (“a habit from above is given to us”), he could not once rise above “light”.)
Conclusion: Their happiness did not take place for many reasons (mistakes that both of them made): tribute to fashion; Tatyana's ignorance of the laws of secular life, her imprudence; the desire to be free from family ties by Onegin; duel; Marriage of Tatiana
What lesson of life, what science of love did Pushkin teach us? (Life is harsh, unlike its beauty in books, in dreams; it is filled with human suffering, separations, late realization of one's mistakes and the inability to correct them, since it is impossible to turn back time, to live anew (you cannot enter the same river twice). So always has been, always is and always will be...
What are examples of a similar fate of the heroes of the works of classical and modern literature you know?
("Romeo and Juliet" - lit. heroes; M. Volkonskaya - in life. She married, like Tatiana (in the river "Eugene Onegin") not for love, but she carried a high sense of duty through her whole life, went for her husband to Siberia...) About the same destinies, sufferings, mistakes of life is also sung in the song "Shores" performed by A. Malinin. Let's listen to her.
9. (Musical pause.)
III. The final part of the lesson.
"The Distance of the Free Romance".
1. The role of composition, its originality in revealing the ideological concept of the novel.
Questions for the class:
What can you say about the composition of the novel?
What is the role of chapter 8 in it?
What is the originality of the composition of the novel "Eugene Onegin"? (answer)
Then I. (The composition is traditional, simple, as the novel reveals the typical fate of the characters in the development of their love relationships. First: She loves him,
He won't notice her.
She writes him a letter, listens to his sermon.
Then: He loves her, she does not notice him; he writes a letter to her, listens to her sermon. Often in life this happens. This is a simple construction of the novel (mirror composition, reverse reflection.) But it emphasizes the complexity of human relationships, the experiences of our heroes.
Critics, readers about the novel.
2. And now let's turn to the opinions of critics, literary critics (Pushkin's contemporaries and today). What did they find in the novel, what do they think of its characters?
(The statements of Belinsky, Herzen, Dostevsky, Merezhkovsky, Lotman, Kuchelbecker, Gukovsky are ending.) We read from the textbook and listen to individual information from the student.
Question to the class: - Are their opinions unanimous?
Answer: No, they are different. Yes, many are the same…”
Question: "Why is that?"
Conclusion (teacher): because our life is filled with diversity, the movement of thoughts, destinies. The main thing in it is the ability to overcome difficulties, the ability to think, feel, love, warm others with your love, shine on others like a candle in a dark night, warm the warmth of your outstretched hand to another who needs it. The great Pushkin hoped for this, he prayed to God about this: “God grant that in this book, reader, you could find at least a grain.” I. Moiseev and A. Pugacheva sing about the same in the song “Two Candles in a Dark Night”. (We light candles from one to another, join hands and listen to the song.)
2nd musical break.
so our journey through the pages of Pushkin's favorite novel "Eugene Onegin" ended, the last page of the life of his favorite heroes closed. Take his wise advice into your life, carefully, like a candle, carry your love through life and remember that love (as the poet told us) is a priceless gift, a divine gift! Learn from Pushkin all your life.
Lesson grades. They are set according to the number of tokens, their colors, which students have earned in the lesson.
Homework.
Write an essay on one of the suggested topics. (The topics were given in advance in one of the lessons at the beginning of the commented reading of the novel.)
Here is a list of those topics.
1. Why did the happiness of Onegin and Tatyana not take place? (According to the novel by A. S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin".)
2. The role of the episode ("Tatyana's Dream") in revealing the character and fate of the protagonist of A. S. Pushkin's novel "Eugene Onegin".
3. “Where there are no passions,
Where there is no sadness
There is no life there.
V. Belinsky
(According to the novel "Eugene Onegin" or at the student's choice.)
4. "I love my dear Tatyana so much."
A. Pushkin
5. Features of the genre and composition of the novel by A. S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin".
6. My opinion about Onegin. (According to the novel by A. S. Pushkin "Eugene Onegin".)