Do you want to know the truth about yourself or those around you? Do you want to understand what drives you every second of your life? Find out about a person’s strongest emotions that determine his habits, behavior, and life.
Pride- a strong feeling expressed in the thirst for self-respect. It can lift you to unattainable heights, it can throw you into the very abyss. With her you can bloom like a flower of paradise, but with her you can wither. In different social circles it evokes different responses: in high circles, in a sports environment, in business - it can generate a feeling of respect for a person; among ordinary people, people of the orthodox persuasion, it can evoke a range of feelings from pity to open hostility. Currently being actively promoted. Color – red.
Anger- a blinding feeling that drives a person into a frenzy due to obvious injustice towards him, the impossibility of eliminating this injustice. Anger has two shades: the first is destructive in nature (it can cause harm to others, even murder); the second is constructive - if in the process of experiencing an emotion a positive result is obtained (here we can give a vivid example of the behavior of a mother during the siege of Leningrad: a mother and a young child are in a village not far from the city, through which a railway track runs. A train is traveling along the railway track at high speed ". To get out of the village to the city for help, you need to get on this train. The train is not going to stop. The mother decides to jump on the rails, blocking the way for the train. The train stops with the grinding of brakes and the driver cursing, the mother and child board the train). The color is fiery.
Laziness- a sore of the soul that determines the entire life of the person suffering from it. Laziness is comparable to a sticky web, once caught in it, it will take a long and painful time to get out. Laziness gives rise to many minor vices - lying, idleness, irritability, excessive consumption of food. Laziness can be associated with childhood complexes, fear of responsibility, and lack of willpower. It can be treated by force of will, with great desire. Sometimes it is the engine of progress, during which new items are created that simplify life. Color – purple.
Dejection- an oppressive feeling of melancholy, accompanied by self-pity and playing the victim. It can be a desired permanent state in lazy people, permanent in people experiencing deep stress. It is treated with medication - from folk valerian to psychotropic drugs; mentally – from undergoing training to contacting specialists; spiritually - by transferring experiences into the realm of mystical experience. Unconventional healing methods with questionable results - alcohol, illegal drugs, numerous relationships with partners with questionable moral principles. Color – pale blue.
Tags: Meditation exercises and techniques, Emotion management, Psychotechniques and exercisesHello dear reader. In order to show the relevance of our conversation today, I want you to stop reading the article for a few moments and answer the question: “What emotions are you currently experiencing?”
Have you thought about it? Did you answer?
Now let's see what problems often arise when answering this question.
- Many people answer this question in the following way: “Yes, I don’t feel any particular emotions right now, everything is fine.” Does this mean that there really are no emotions? Or does this simply mean that the person is poorly aware of his emotional state? The fact is that a person always experiences emotions, every moment of his life. Sometimes they reach high intensity, and sometimes their intensity is low. Many people pay attention only to strong emotional experiences, and do not attach any importance to low-intensity emotions and even do not notice them at all. However, if emotions are not very strong, this does not mean that they are absent.
- Another possible answer to the question posed is: “Somehow I feel unpleasant. I feel uncomfortable." We see that the person is aware that there are unpleasant emotions inside, but he cannot name which ones. Maybe it's irritation, or maybe disappointment or guilt, or maybe something else.
- Often our question is answered like this: “I feel like it’s time for me to get up from my computer and get to work” or “I feel like this article could be useful to me.” Many people confuse their emotions with thoughts and desire to do something. Trying to describe their emotional state, they describe everything except emotions.
Meditation exercise for understanding emotions
When working with clients, I often use a meditation exercise to help them better understand their own emotions. It is so effective that I decided to make an audio recording so that anyone could use this technique. The mechanism of action of the exercise is based on the connection between emotions and bodily reactions. Any, even the most insignificant, emotion is reflected in the body (read more about this). By learning to listen to your own bodily reactions, you can become more familiar with your emotions.
You can do the exercise right now. Here's the entry:
Once you have learned what emotions are and have easily learned to describe your inner state, you may be interested in exploring yourself more deeply. For example, you may want to figure out what positive meaning emotions can carry that, at first glance, are absolutely meaningless and even harmful. Read about this in the next
Strong emotions are scary. Especially those who are used to being reserved. For those who believe that it is important to control themselves, it is important to always be aware of what you are doing and how you look in your own and others’ eyes. When your own and others’ strong emotions are frightening, a “wonderful” idea of control over them appears. You can’t directly control strangers, but you can try to shame someone who dared to behave as openly and naturally as possible. Shame is an excellent weapon...For yourself, you can look for a suitable ideology - one that well justifies dispassion and restraint. For example, Buddhism is an authoritative teaching. You can take Schopenhauer. Nietzsche would not be bad, but he has continuous passions and madness - it’s not for nothing that he was not himself... We need cool, calm, dispassionate authors with the same texts and actions. The English gentleman, Natty Bumppo, nicknamed Pathfinder, Major McNabbs - these are the real ones examples of calm and worthy people!
A person shouting joyfully and jumping on the spot with happiness seems like an idiot. Crazy fans at hockey or football matches - what kind of screaming and antics, what kind of kindergarten? An openly and clearly angry woman is hysterical. The screaming man is a maniac and a psychopath. A woman who cannot find a place for herself from anxiety is again a hysteric (what a convenient label, however...). Well, you can call her nervous... Reverence is pathos. Greedy interest in something is childish curiosity, childishness... But you need to control yourself: emotions are useless, they are a hindrance and must be placed under the iron control of the mind.
The idea of controlling emotions is many, many years old. Strong feelings feel destructive. “I’m afraid of letting my anger get out of control because I’ll lose all my inhibitions and end up doing a lot of things.” “I don’t want to get too attached, because I’ll have to get rid of it anyway... I don’t want to depend on anyone.” “It’s better to nip negative feelings in the bud, otherwise they will grow and completely take control of you.” There is a lot of fear in these words. Fear of losing control and, as a consequence, loss of face (“I’ll look like...”). Fear of dissolving in a feeling, fear of losing oneself. Shame for oneself, such an “animal.” You can’t even relax in sex - you need to keep your face, be on top, but what kind of solidity is there in these wild convulsions?
Alongside the idea that emotions can be controlled is the idea that a person chooses his emotions. “You chose to be offended! But he might not be offended.” “You chose to be angry, and it’s your problem that you’re angry. I’m calm, can’t we talk like normal people…” (only for some reason my teeth are clenched until my jaws hurt…).
Both related ideas are wrong. Our emotions are generated by parts of the brain that are much older in origin than the “seat” of consciousness, the prefrontal cortex. Consciousness is always slower than unconscious reactions, and emotions are rooted in the unconscious, providing, once in the distant past, quick reactions to certain external events. The mechanism remains, and consciousness, which cannot keep up with emotions, tries to create the illusion of control.
We cannot prevent ourselves from experiencing emotions, especially strong ones. But to say that you cannot influence them at all is wrong (although this is the dream of a psychopath). We have a choice: we can choose ways to react and respond to emotions. There are many reactions: from “Oh God, I feel angry - ban!!! Otherwise I'm a bad boy! (or “This is irrational, and I’m a rational person!”) to “Am I angry? Now I’ll blow everything here to hell!” And reacting is precisely an action dictated by a choice. You can take out your anger on the object at which it is directed, you can - on strangers, you can bite yourself, you can swallow - and only crimson eyes indicate to an internal eruption of anger.
We have the power to make one more choice: to simply experience an emotion, or to respond to it by turning it into an action aimed at changing the situation with which the experience is associated. Then the following will be true: I choose to remain angry, or to do something about it (rather than “I choose not to be angry in the situation at which I am angry”). Our internal attitudes, irrational thoughts-introjects, past experiences - all this affects not the emotions themselves, but the reaction. And so - emotions are approximately the same for everyone.
Rejection from loved ones causes pain. If it’s not there, it means you either don’t feel it, or these are not close people. And the feeling of whether a person is close or not depends not on rational choice. “I decided that you will be dear to me!” - sounds strange, right?... When another person has something that we ourselves really want to have, but for now it is impossible, we envy. We feel sympathy for similar people... It is the commonality of our emotional reactions that makes it possible for empathy, the realization that another person feels. The reasons may differ, but the emotions are the same.
But how did he “change his attitude to the situation - did his emotional reactions change?” So changing your attitude is also not a rational choice. Until we reach a certain point in our emotional experience, no, even the most correct rational arguments, will reach our consciousness. “You can’t order your heart,” “I understand everything with my head, but I feel completely differently!” , “I know this is stupid, but I can’t do anything!” You often feel very irritated by the words of your friends in the style of “Well, we told you so!” Yes, they did. But I was not in the emotional state to listen... Awareness, insight is not a rational act, but an unconscious one.
So, running away from strong (and not so strong) emotions is a rejection of a huge layer of life experience, a path to impoverishment and dulling of life. The feeling of fullness comes with feelings, not with smart thoughts. The fear of the inability to control oneself during the experience of strong feelings is associated with a lack of experience, but where does it come from? A vicious circle... Emotions do not destroy, they are destroyed by inadequate ways of reacting and reacting. And the most terrible emotions hide in quiet people... In very quiet whirlpools...
P.S. If, after reading, you get the impression that the mind is a secondary and unnecessary thing, then this is a very erroneous impression.
Human emotions– this is the evaluative attitude of the individual to emerging phenomena. Human emotions have not been studied well enough, so there are often different definitions of this phenomenon from different authors. But we can express a general statement according to which emotions are regulators of activity that reflect the meaning of an existing or possible situation in an individual’s life. Based on this, a person’s emotions give rise to experiences of joy, fear, pleasure and other feelings. Human emotions, by themselves, may not give rise to experience; their main task is the internal regulation of activity.
Emotions have undergone a long evolution; they have developed from simple innate instinctive processes (organic and motor changes) into more complex processes that have lost their instinctive basis, but are tied to a specific situation. That is, complex emotional processes began to express an individual evaluative attitude towards circumstances and their direct participation in them.
They determine vital primary emotions that ensure a person’s survival. These include pain, rage, and others similar.
Emotions in a person’s life have an indescribable meaning. So, thanks to interest, surprise, sadness, joy, fear, people transmit information. Their expression is accompanied by bodily manifestations - gestures, facial expressions, changes in skin color (redness, paleness).
Emotions in a person’s life are regulators of social activity and its guides. A person without emotions becomes empty and uninteresting. He stops seeing the meaning in everything he does, so he becomes apathetic and detached. Sometimes such an apathetic state takes over a person, but over time a good mood returns, which moves him forward.
Emotions in a person’s life act as signals. With their help, the current state of the body is displayed. If positive emotions are observed, it means that he is happy with everything, negative ones indicate dissatisfaction of some needs.
Emotions protect the body from overload and preserve internal energy. Every emotional state signals something. So, when experiencing stress, a person’s activity decreases, thereby leaving energy for doing something more important.
The influence of emotions on a person is very diverse. They affect. A person experiencing positive emotions, such as joy, views the world from an optimistic point of view. Those who experience suffering or see evil intentions and negativity in everything.
Emotions have an impact on mental processes. Thus, a person in a state of stress cannot remember events, the appearance of people, he gets all the facts mixed up and does not understand what is true and what he could have made up.
The influence of emotions on a person is reflected in his studies and work. If he takes up work with interest, then he will act quickly and without getting tired.
The emotional state influences. A person's strong emotions make him uncontrollable; he may not even understand what he is doing. For example, in a state (of an extremely strong emotional state) a person is capable of murder, he can do something completely unusual for him.
Types of human emotions
The role of any emotion in a person’s life cannot be overestimated. People may be from different cultures, raised differently, live in different parts of the world, differ in appearance, speak different languages, but they all have the same emotions and express the same person’s attitude towards a certain situation or subject. Even animals understand some human emotions. For example, when a person is happy and laughs, the dog also begins to show his joy by dancing around the person and wagging his tail. If a person is sad, the dog calmly lies down next to him. These processes have not been properly studied, but it is a fact.
There are many types of human emotions and they can change each other very quickly. For example, a person is in one state and suddenly a certain stimulus acts on him, and he critically changes his attitude to the situation. A person can in an instant, being in a cheerful mood, switch to a gloomy one, or, conversely, under the influence of an event that has occurred, switch from a sad state to a joyful one.
A person is capable of experiencing opposing feelings regarding one individual, and at the same time. The emotions that excite a person are instantly reflected on his face, so it is very difficult to hide them. People may try to hide their true feelings, their facial expressions, but there are other factors through which one can determine what a person is experiencing - this is posture, facial expressions, gait, gestures and others.
All emotions are divided into positive human emotions, neutral and negative human emotions.
Positive emotions of people are joy, delight, confidence, satisfaction, tenderness, trust, admiration, sympathy, love, gratitude, tenderness, relief, bliss.
Negative human emotions are sadness, despair, anxiety, displeasure, melancholy, grief, resentment, fear, annoyance, regret, indignation, hostility, anger, insult, uncertainty, distrust, rage, disgust, contempt, disappointment, impatience.
Neutral ones include indifference, amazement, and curiosity.
Each human emotion creates a certain resonance, and everything that is around the individual begins to absorb this state. This mostly refers to people, but thanks to some research, it has become known that animals and plants are also capable of responding to different types of emotional states.
All people can experience basic emotions, but not everyone can experience a wider range of them. Such people are called “thick-skinned” in everyday life. They are not very sensitive and cannot fully appreciate their feelings, they find it difficult to identify them.
There is a separate type of emotion called affect. Affect is a strong emotional state during which rational thinking is switched off and at that moment a person begins to act stereotypically. It is expressed in numbness, flight.
Emotions prepare a person for certain actions. For example, when a person finds himself in critical stressful circumstances, he develops certain emotional and physiological reactions. Thus, in a state of fear, a person’s body may become numb, but it may also prepare to flee.
If a person is sad, then he has a sluggish gait, drooping shoulders and corners of his mouth. In a state of aggression, a person takes a defensive position, the body becomes a shield, the back straightens, the whole body tenses. In an extreme situation, when there is a threat to life, the blood in the body thickens and in case of injury, severe blood loss can be avoided. When a person experiences joy, he produces hormones that can protect the body and strengthen overall tone.
Various emotional states affect the cardiovascular system. Long-term stress can disrupt the normal functioning of the heart and lead to hypertension. Blood circulation also depends on the general condition.
People's positive emotions affect blood flow to the skin and breathing rhythm. If a person experiences prolonged stress, he may experience breathing problems.
A person’s negative emotions have a very negative effect on him and provoke various diseases.
People's positive emotions have a positive effect on sound sleep, improving their overall condition. An optimistic lifestyle has a positive effect on health, so you need to think positively in any case.
Another group of emotional states is represented by affects. Affects are strong human emotions, accompanied by active actions to resolve an acute, extreme, conflict or stressful situation. Affect occurs suddenly and is expressed in temporary disorganization (narrowing) of consciousness and acute activation of impulse reactions. They can appear in various forms.
Fear is a form of affect, it is a reflex reaction that serves as a biological defense mechanism of the psyche. The main manifestations of fear are running, screaming, grimacing, decreased or strongly increased muscle tone, body trembling, increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, dry mouth, intestinal disorders, etc.
A person's anger can also lead to a state of passion. Anger is manifested in a raised tone of voice, reaching the point of screaming, an attacking posture and threatening facial expressions.
The state of disappointment is less emotionally charged to lead to affect, but sometimes it does happen.
Human feelings and emotions
A person's feelings and emotions are strongly related to internal personal qualities. They reflect everything that a person lives by, what happens inside him. A person is often afraid to express his own emotions or denies them, and may confuse them with feelings. Some are not aware of them at all; it is difficult for them to say something in response to the question of what they are experiencing. But this does not mean that these people are insensitive. This means that we need to figure out what is the reason for this state, why a person is not able to determine how he feels about a person, how he feels about a certain event or phenomenon. A person who cannot identify his emotions and feelings is not capable of solving life's problems.
For many people, what they are experiencing or feeling remains unknown, but they are more concerned about the reasons for their feelings. The causes of many conditions and feelings are social. Due to the active development of society, new emotions appear or are given new meaning. For example, a person is not able to feel some feelings after birth, but can learn later from his immediate environment. From early childhood, parents and friends teach the child to express their emotions, encourage them to show their feelings, tell them what emotions and in what situations can be expressed, and when it is better to restrain oneself. When a person is unable, for some reason, to experience the range of feelings that capture everyone except him, then he is considered selfish and insensitive.
Emotions and feelings can express the same thing, for example, a person can feel an emotion and a feeling of joy. Emotions appear when a need arises and end immediately after this need is satisfied; feelings are objective in nature. Satisfying thirst, hunger and other needs is associated with the emotion of joy. The feeling of satisfaction is directly related to one irreplaceable object, for example, a person wants to drink coffee, but there is only tea, but it will not replace coffee, it will not provide the satisfaction that a person expects from coffee. Feelings manifest themselves exclusively towards some object; if it is absent, then they do not arise.
Feelings can be nurtured and developed. There are levels of human feelings - from practical ones, such as satisfaction or property, to sublime feelings that stand out along with spiritual ideals and values.
Feelings developed historically, and in different eras one phenomenon could evoke different attitudes in people. Also, feelings are influenced by culture and religion. Therefore, people of different nations have opposite feelings towards the same object. For example, in European countries a woman can walk quite freely in shorts, a short skirt and a T-shirt; this is considered the norm. If a woman in this form walks near Muslim believers, this will cause indignation and contempt in them, since their religion and culture do not allow a woman’s body to be open.
In a person’s life, practical feelings are formed that are directly related to his activities. In theoretical activity, intellectual feelings are formed that are associated with cognitive activity (curiosity, interest, surprise). In relation to the development of figurative-selective activity, aesthetic ones arose, such as a sense of harmony and beauty, admiration.
Moral feelings include conscience, the experience of guilt, duty, solidarity, justice, nobility. Thanks to moral feelings, a person expresses his feelings and attitude towards others. They also distinguish spiritual feelings, which include feelings of holiness, enlightenment, reverence, and mysticism.
The diversity of an individual’s feelings reflects his system of values, needs and the essence of personality. Regarding the outside world, a person wants to act in such a way as to be positively disposed towards it. Therefore, feelings, unlike emotions, can be independently regulated.
When a person experiences a strong, sustained, positive feeling about something that arises from an unsatisfied need, he feels passion. Passion is a strong emotional state that is poorly controlled by a person, and not every person can cope with it.
Emotional states vary in their sign (positive or negative), intensity, depth, duration of influence and significance of the reflection in reality (deep and shallow).
Feelings and emotions can be sthenic or asthenic, depending on the impact on activity. Stenic ones activate a person, encourage activity, mobilize resources and strength, these include joy, interest, and inspiration. Asthenic relaxes and fetters forces, for example, a person’s negative emotions, humiliation, guilt, and depression.
The emotional tone of a sensation shows a person’s attitude to the quality of feelings. That is, a certain phenomenon or stimulus is responsible for a person’s condition. For example, the sound of the sea, the sound of a log cracking in a fire, the sight of a sunset, and the like. Some irritants can cause idiosyncrasy in a person - a painful aversion to certain individually intolerable sounds, smells, tastes.
An emotional response is a quick reaction to changes in the external environment. For example, a person saw a beautiful flower - he was amazed, he heard a loud thunder - he was scared. An emotional response expresses a person's emotional excitability. There is a type of emotional response known as syntony; it manifests itself in a person’s ability to be responsive to other people and respond to phenomena and changes in phenomena in the world around them. Syntony is expressed through a state of harmony between a person and nature, in the ability to understand and accept the experiences and feelings of others.
Emotional stability is manifested in the stability of a person’s behavior in a variety of situations, in resistance to various life difficulties, and in the manifestation of tolerance towards other people. The predominance of positive or negative emotions in a person’s experience forms a corresponding stable mood in a person.
There is also a connection between emotions, feelings and... Emotions can cause certain behavioral acts, like motivation, and accompany the motivation itself, while experiencing certain feelings. For example, food is not only motivation, but also a source of satisfaction, and the very process in which a person eats is accompanied by the emotion of joy. Motivation is “turned on” with the help of internal processes of the body and is focused on suppressing internal imbalance. Unlike motivation, emotion is a response to external processes and is directed to an external source of information.
In nature there is such a phenomenon as. A person with alexithymia is said to be a person without emotions. Such people cross out both emotions and feelings from their lives. Instead, they engage in reflection. Alexithymics believe that it is important to understand, and not live it, wasting time on unnecessary experiences. They never feel anything, or at least they say so, it is difficult for them to understand themselves and identify their sensations.
If a person is healthy, then he experiences feelings and experiences emotions. Since the outside world influences a person, it means that he must respond to these influences in some way, therefore all a person’s actions and thoughts have an emotional connotation, which is a sign of a mentally healthy person.
Alexithymia is formed mainly in childhood, when adults, in the process of raising their children, themselves act in ways that cause this disorder. They interfere with the full formation of emotions and feelings in children, since they themselves have problems expressing them. While other parents encourage their children to express their feelings, alexithymics are unable to teach this to their own children, as they themselves have difficulty recognizing and expressing their feelings. In most cases, alexithymia occurs in men. Since they are taught from childhood that they are not obliged to cry or reveal their true feelings, but to keep everything to themselves or not even allow themselves any feelings.
Alexithymia can develop not only in childhood, but also in adulthood. This occurs due to stressful experiences accompanied by strong emotions. If a person is unable to realize and experience his emotions, a certain barrier appears to them; he does not allow them to reach his consciousness, blocks and ignores them. It turns out that a person guards himself from internal experiences due to the inability to share them with someone or properly work through them.
There are people who quite consciously turn off their emotions. They explain this by saying that it is easier and much more profitable to live this way. So, for example, these people can freely “go over their heads”, despite the fact that this makes other people feel bad. They do not feel pity for people if they have hurt them, they simply insensitively use them for personal gain. They organize their lives to the fullest, do what is important to them first and foremost. But over time, a certain understanding comes that it was necessary to live differently. This happens when a person realizes all the pain that he caused to others, when his loved ones leave him, and he cannot do anything about it. It is very important to understand all this in time and stop being an insensitive person.
The most powerful emotions
10 most powerful human feelings and emotions
Do you want to know the truth about yourself or those around you? Do you want to understand what drives you every second of your life? Find out about a person’s strongest emotions that determine his habits, behavior, and life.
Pride - a strong feeling expressed in the thirst for self-esteem. It can lift you to unattainable heights, it can throw you into the very abyss. With her you can bloom like a flower of paradise, but with her you can wither. In different social circles it evokes different responses: in high circles, in a sports environment, in business - it can generate a feeling of respect for a person; among ordinary people, people of the orthodox persuasion, it can evoke a range of feelings from pity to open hostility. Currently being actively promoted. Color - red.
Anger - a blinding feeling that drives a person into a frenzy due to obvious injustice towards him, the impossibility of eliminating this injustice. Anger has two shades: the first is destructive (it can cause harm to the person himself, others, even murder); the second is constructive - if in the process of experiencing an emotion a positive result is obtained (here we can give a vivid example of the behavior of a mother during the siege of Leningrad: a mother and a young child are in a village not far from the city, through which a railway track runs. A train is traveling along the railway track at high speed ". To get out of the village to the city for help, you need to get on this train. The train is not going to stop. The mother decides to jump on the rails, blocking the way for the train. The train stops with the grinding of brakes and the driver cursing, the mother and child board the train). Color - fiery.
Laziness - a sore of the soul that determines the entire life of the person suffering from it. Laziness is comparable to a sticky web, once caught in it, it will take a long and painful time to get out. Laziness gives rise to many minor vices - lying, idleness, irritability, excessive consumption of food. Laziness can be associated with childhood complexes, fear of responsibility, and lack of willpower. It can be treated by force of will, with great desire. Sometimes it is the engine of progress, during which new items are created that simplify life. Color - purple.
Dejection - an oppressive feeling of melancholy, accompanied by self-pity and playing the victim. It can be a desired permanent state in lazy people, permanent in people experiencing deep stress. It is treated with medication - from folk valerian to medicinal psychotropic drugs; mentally - from undergoing training to contacting specialists; spiritually - by transferring experiences into the realm of mystical experience. Non-standard healing methods with questionable results - alcohol, illegal drugs, numerous relationships with partners with questionable moral principles. Color - pale blue.
Jealousy - a corrosive feeling of mistrust and doubt in another person. It turns out to be destructive both for the jealous person himself (mental health, low self-esteem, inappropriate actions) and for the object of jealousy (physical health, inappropriate actions up to death). It is exaggerated and exalted in some works of art, among some nationalities. In small quantities it is a cure for relationships, in excessive quantities it is poison. Poisonous orange.
Passion - anti-love. It has a bright beginning, a stormy and memorable continuation, a climax and an end, which is certainly followed by a feeling of disappointment and emptiness. It can manifest itself both to living beings and to inanimate objects (luxury items, antiques, branded cars). Color - the whole range of red.
Hatred - a feeling of deep disgust and rejection of another person. Destructive. Very destructive. Capable of putting a person into a state of passion. It happens to a specific person, a group of people, or society as a whole. Inherent in people who have no idea about love. It is believed that it can even compete with it, as evidenced by the Russian proverb “From love to hate - one step.” It is healed by love, as evidenced by the Georgian song “What was destroyed by enmity will be reborn by love.” Color - cold blue.
Lie - intentional misrepresentation. The weapon of choice on the battlefield for love. Produced through fictitious fabrications, inventions and very often simple female nonsense. Sooner or later, it will definitely become famous. It is not recommended to use this method too often, especially for people with poor memory. Color - marsh.
Envy - a feeling of annoyance caused by some kind of superiority. In both cases, it has a lasting destructive effect on the envier himself. It incinerates, does not allow you to live in peace, drink, eat, gnaws. It is treated by equalizing self-esteem, working hard to achieve results, and fighting laziness. There is an opinion that there are two colors - white (to the delight of people) and black (evil).
Love - the most unsurpassed feeling of all available in the human soul. Color - 7 colors of the rainbow.